What I do
I am a dedicated coach and facilitator, passionate about guiding people towards deeper connections, authentic living, and sexual liberation.
With my background in intimacy coaching and facilitation, my mission is to empower you to embrace your true self, heal past wounds, reclaim your power, and unlock your full potential.
Drawing from my rich tapestry of life experiences and lessons towards liberation, I create a nurturing environment where you can explore, heal, and grow. Get ready to embark on a transformative journey towards greater love, pleasure, and aliveness!"
This is me
Growing up I learned to disconnect from my body. Emotions didn’t exist and were mostly something to be ignored. This left me feeling hopeless and lonely. I didn’t feel seen and didn’t feel loved.
When I graduated fashion school I started my first job. I lived in Amsterdam with my boyfriend of 7,5 years. I had everything I wanted!
But was I happy? No.
I didn’t understand why, and I couldn’t imagine how things could be different.
But deep down I knew. There must be more to life.
I ended my relationship and continued to explore on my own. Work hard, play hard. Parties in the weekend and working during the week. One night stands every weekend for 4 years.
It was a lot of fun, until it wasn’t anymore…
I faced all kinds of relational patterns, trauma’s and blockages. I realized I never learned how to relate to people, how to connect and how to love. This started my research into relating. I discovered that a lot of people don’t know how to relate in a healthy way.
After 10 years working in fashion as a graphic designer, the job had no challenges left for me. I felt useless and I was longing to do something more fulfilling. Something that helps to build a better future…
When corona hit, my lively weekends disappeared and all I had left was my job. I realized I was only living for those Saturday nights and was confronted with what wasn’t aligned in my life. I went into a dark place. I was so unhappy. No parties, no dancing, no dating, no sex, no love, no challenge, no fulfillment.
I was so done!
I did a lot of reading and self healing, determined to do it all alone. But I stagnated. I needed something more. I decided to follow a course where I found deeper healing. I learned to live more from my feminine energy and not always act from my masculine side. I connected to my body for the first time. I could finally feel what I really wanted and made a life changing decision: switching careers. I had no doubts because I could feel it was so aligned and true for me. I made this decision from my deepest intuition.
In 2021 I started the VITA™ program by Layla Martin for sex, love and relationship coaching. Going through deep personal healing and learning how this works using a tantric methodology. Doing weekly practices to connect to my body, my breath and my energy. This year I will graduate as a certified sex, love and relationship coach, men’s coach and Tantric sex coach.
I learned to take radical self-responsibility. I took back control over my life.
I CREATE MY OWN REALITY BY KNOWING WHAT I WANT AND WHAT IS TRUE FOR ME…
“The deeper you connect to yourself, the deeper you can connect to others.”
By healing myself and reconnecting to my body, my life has transformed tremendously. I live in a reality beyond my wildest dreams, filled with deep connections. I deeply love myself. I feel safe, loved and calm. I feel my body like never before. I’m able to experience all kinds of sensations and emotions in my body. I can take care of myself by expressing my desires and boundaries. I feel liberated and empowered to be my authentic self. Living my life exactly as I desire, experiencing all that life has to offer. I love life and life loves me. I’m alive!