Work with me

  • Free: Morning Pleasure Ritual

    This 15-minute guided ritual helps you slow down and reconnect - through breath, touch, and presence.

    You’ll learn to feel pleasure from within, without external stimulation - nourishing your nervous system and deepening your connection to yourself.

    A daily practice to return home to your body, one breath at a time.

    Pleasure Ritual

  • LIBERATED LOVER 1:1 Coaching

    A personalized coaching journey for men who are done with pleasing and performing — and ready to feel real connection again.
    Together we look at the patterns that keep you chasing love, approval, or control, and guide you back to the place where you can relax into yourself.
    Through somatic work, emotional awareness, and honest reflection, you’ll learn to trust your body, express your truth, and lead from presence instead of fear.
    This is where intimacy starts — not by doing more, but by being more yourself.

    Get Liberated

  • ⚔️♥️ The Fellowship of the Heart ♥️⚔️

    Waitlist open now.
    Next journey: February 2026

    For men who seek deeper intimacy — by leading from the heart and embodied presence.

    A 6-stage embodied group journey into truth, connection, and lasting transformation.
    Not just a peak experience — but a foundation for real change, held in brotherhood.

    Step in

  • Free: Discovery Call

    In this 30 minute online meeting you can get to know me, ask your questions and we can find out if we are a match to work together

    Book Free Call

Events & Workshops

  • Denise’s Liberation Channel

    Join me behind the scenes of The Liberated Lover and The Fellowship of the Heart.
    Receive exclusive updates, upcoming events, and personal reflections on intimacy, embodiment, and awakening from within.

    Join me here

  • Pandora - Living Laboratory for Intimacy

    January 25 | 14:00-22:30 | Amsterdam

    Here we explore intimacy together to feel, relate, and be fully human. Open your box of curiosity and see who meets you there. 💜

    Follow your Curiosity

  • Dominance Playground
    By Denise & Miss V.

    March 13 | 19:30 - 23:00 | Amsterdam

    A 3,5-hour workshop for men ready to explore authentic dominance beyond clichés and stereotypes. Through guided practices, you’ll discover your playful power, learn to create safe space for surrender, and step into embodied leadership in intimacy. A place to liberate your kinky side with authenticity, curiosity, and joy.

    Take the lead

  • Free Workshop:

    R.B.D.S.M. - Talk

    Relationship, boundaries, desires, safer sex, meaning + after care. A valuable communication tool before going into intimate interaction. I’m very passionate about this tool and I highly recommend to use it! Enjoy!

    Free Workshop

  • Selfness – ODE to Women Jewelry
    Celebrate your or your woman’s femininity with bold, sensual jewelry. ODE is more than an accessory – it's a feeling.

    Wearing these clitoris-inspired pieces makes you feel powerful, sexy, and seen. Loved by women worldwide, each piece is a proud symbol of self-love and freedom.

    Shine unapologetically – and let your jewelry speak for you.

    Selfness.nl

  • Pleasure Wands & Eggs

    I highly recommend these beautiful glass toys! Also my favorite!

    Especially designed for your body and to feel empowered in your own sexuality. They can be used for pleasure practices, yoni de-armouring or orgastic (self-)massages.

    Get 10% off with code: DENISE10

    pleasuresiren.com

Feeling Curious?

If something in you feels curious, tender, or alive - follow that.
You don’t have to know what it means yet.

You’re welcome to reach out here, or email me at info@denisekooij.com.

Whether it’s a question, a feeling, or simply wanting to connect,
your message is welcome here.