Work with me

  • The Morning Pleasure Ritual

    This 15-minute guided ritual is for men who want to get out of their head, reconnect with their body, and move from pleasing to pleasure.

  • LIBERATED LOVER 1:1 Coaching

    A personalized coaching journey for men who are done with pleasing and performing — and ready to feel real connection again.

  • ⚔️♥️ The Fellowship of the Heart ♥️⚔️

    Next journey starts : September 2

    A mens group, held by women. Moving from isolation, pleasing and performance into embodied presence.

  • Desire Deep Dive

    A one-off 1:1 session for men to explore desire, intimacy, and what they truly want.
    Experience my work and leave with more clarity, self-trust, and connection to your body.

  • Free: Discovery Call

    In this 30 minute online meeting you can get to know me, ask your questions and we can find out if we are a match to work together

Events & Workshops

  • Pandora - Intimacy Laboratory

    April 26 | 14:00-22:30 | Amsterdam
    Together we explore intimacy to feel, relate, and be fully human. Open your box of curiosity and see who meets you there.

  • Embodied Dating Club

    April 30 | 18:30-22:30 | Amsterdam

    Embodied Dating Club is for singles who have done the inner work, love themselves, and are wondering: where the hell are all the good ones?

    Fuck dating apps, I want magic!

  • Intimacy Camp

    Spring: May 17-23
    Summer: July 14-27

    A relational playground dedicated to the exploration of Intimacy, Embodiment, and Community

  • Denise’s Liberation Channel

    Join me behind the scenes of The Liberated Lover and The Fellowship of the Heart.
    Receive exclusive updates, upcoming events, and personal reflections on intimacy, embodiment, and awakening from within.

  • Dominance Playground
    By Denise & Miss V.

    next: May 15 | 19:30 - 23:00 | Amsterdam

    A 3,5-hour workshop for men ready to explore authentic dominance beyond clichés and stereotypes.

  • Free Workshop:

    R.B.D.S.M. - Talk

    Relationship, boundaries, desires, safer sex, meaning + after care. A valuable communication tool before going into intimate interaction. I’m very passionate about this tool and I highly recommend to use it! Enjoy!

Co-Creations

  • Selfness – ODE to Women Jewelry
    Celebrate your or your woman’s femininity with bold, sensual jewelry. ODE is more than an accessory – it's a feeling.

  • Pleasure Wands & Eggs

    I highly recommend these beautiful glass toys! Also my favorite!

    Get 10% off with code: DENISE10

Feeling Curious?

If something in you feels curious, tender, or alive - follow that.
You don’t have to know what it means yet.

You’re welcome to reach out here, or email me at info@denisekooij.com.

Whether it’s a question, a feeling, or simply wanting to connect,
your message is welcome here.