Work with me

  • LIBERATED LOVER 1:1 Coaching

    A personalized coaching journey for men who are done with pleasing and performing — and ready to feel real connection again.
    Together we look at the patterns that keep you chasing love, approval, or control, and guide you back to the place where you can relax into yourself.
    Through somatic work, emotional awareness, and honest reflection, you’ll learn to trust your body, express your truth, and lead from presence instead of fear.
    This is where intimacy starts — not by doing more, but by being more yourself.

    Get Liberated

  • ⚔️♥️ The Fellowship of the Heart ♥️⚔️

    Waitlist open now.
    Next journey: February 2026

    For men who seek deeper intimacy — by leading from the heart and embodied presence.

    A 6-stage embodied group journey into truth, connection, and lasting transformation.
    Not just a peak experience — but a foundation for real change, held in brotherhood.

    Step in

  • Tailored Coaching Journey

    Choose between a magical date night or a transformative journey — tailored to your unique connection.
    Each session is designed to meet you where you are, helping you rekindle intimacy, deepen trust, and explore your bond through body-based practices, mindful touch, and presence.

    Connect Deeper

  • Free Discovery Call

    In this 30 minute online meeting you can get to know me, ask your questions and we can find out if we are a match to work together

    Book Free Call

  • FREE Morning Pleasure Ritual

    This 15-minute guided ritual helps you slow down and reconnect - through breath, touch, and presence.

    You’ll learn to feel pleasure from within, without external stimulation - nourishing your nervous system and deepening your connection to yourself.

    A daily practice to return home to your body, one breath at a time.

    Pleasure Ritual

  • FREE Couple Exercise
    The Intimacy Activator

    Try this free guided breathing and presence exercise designed to help you and your partner reconnect - beyond words.

    Guided by me, it’s a simple yet powerful way to slow down together, feel each other more deeply, and nurture intimacy through the body.

    Sign up to receive the Intimacy Activator and begin your journey back to connection, one breath at a time.

    Start Connecting

  • Desire Deep Dive

    Book a one time session:

    Get to know me and the way I work with this 1,5H session.

    Book Desire Deep Dive

Events & Workshops

  • Denise’s Liberation Channel

    Join me behind the scenes of The Liberated Lover and The Fellowship of the Heart.
    Receive exclusive updates, upcoming events, and personal reflections on intimacy, embodiment, and awakening from within.

    Join me here

  • Temple of Alchemy XL
    Tantric Dance X Temple
    Denise, Lexmy & Dominique

    Oct 26 | 18.30 - 23:00 | Amsterdam

    The Temple of Alchemy is a sacred space for embodied exploration — where intimacy, presence, and devotion meet.
    Rooted in conscious connection, it invites you to move beyond curiosity into the depth of your own heart.

    Through guided rituals, Tantric connection practices, and playful polarity dances, we awaken life-force energy and open the body as a temple of truth.
    All of you is welcome. Nothing is required. Everything is an invitation.

    Temple of Alchemy

  • Dominance Playground
    By Denise & Miss V.

    SOLD OUT - join Denise’s Liberation Channel to receive updates for next edition.

    Nov 28 | 20:00 - 23:00 | Amsterdam

    A 3-hour workshop for men ready to explore authentic dominance beyond clichés and stereotypes. Through guided practices, you’ll discover your playful power, learn to create safe space for surrender, and step into embodied leadership in intimacy. A place to liberate your kinky side with authenticity, curiosity, and joy.

    Take the lead

  • Free Workshop:

    R.B.D.S.M. - Talk

    Relationship, boundaries, desires, safer sex, meaning + after care. A valuable communication tool before going into intimate interaction. I’m very passionate about this tool and I highly recommend to use it! Enjoy!

    Free Workshop

  • Selfness – ODE to Women Jewelry
    Celebrate your or your woman’s femininity with bold, sensual jewelry. ODE is more than an accessory – it's a feeling.

    Wearing these clitoris-inspired pieces makes you feel powerful, sexy, and seen. Loved by women worldwide, each piece is a proud symbol of self-love and freedom.

    Shine unapologetically – and let your jewelry speak for you.

    Selfness.nl

  • Pleasure Wands & Eggs

    I highly recommend these beautiful glass toys! Also my favorite!

    Especially designed for your body and to feel empowered in your own sexuality. They can be used for pleasure practices, yoni de-armouring or orgastic (self-)massages.

    Get 10% off with code: DENISE10

    pleasuresiren.com

Feeling Curious?

If something in you feels curious, tender, or alive - follow that.
You don’t have to know what it means yet.

You’re welcome to reach out here, or email me at info@denisekooij.com.

Whether it’s a question, a feeling, or simply wanting to connect,
your message is welcome here.