the Liberated Lover
You are tired of losing yourself in intimacy.
Of overthinking, performing, and feeling pressure during sex.
A 6-month 1:1 coaching journey to help you feel calm in your body, free in your sexuality, and fully present in intimacy.
You live in your head, especially when intimacy becomes vulnerable.
You please, perform, rush, shut down, or lose touch with what you want.
Sex can bring pressure, erection difficulties, or ejaculating sooner than you would like.
You long for closeness, but struggle to relax, trust your body, and let yourself be fully seen.
You do not want to keep trying harder.
You want to feel freer.
Maybe you recognise this…
From losing yourself to being fully you
You learn to notice what happens inside you when intimacy becomes real, and stay connected to your body instead of automatically pleasing, disconnecting, or pushing through.
Over time, sex can feel calmer, desire clearer, and expressing yourself more natural.
Not a perfected lover.
A liberated one.
Less pressure and more pleasure during sex
Feeling and trusting your desire
Knowing your yes, your no, and your boundaries
Staying present when intimacy becomes vulnerable
Feeling more relaxed, confident, and free in your body
Creating connection without abandoning yourself
What Liberation can feel like
“The deeper you connect with yourself.
The deeper you can connect to others.”
How we Work
This work is about building a relationship with your body.
Through embodied exercises, breath, movement, and guided attention, we explore what lives beneath the surface. This may be an emotion you have pushed away, a younger part that needs care, pleasure you struggle to receive, or pressure that appears during sex.
We do not only analyse the pattern. We listen to what your body is holding, give space to what wants to be felt, and explore what it needs.
This is self-love in action: learning to stay with yourself instead of overriding, judging, or abandoning what you feel.
Over time, you learn to recognize your needs, trust your desire, receive more pleasure, and care for these parts yourself.
In our sessions, the parts you usually hide are met with presence rather than judgment.
This gives your body a new experience: it can be safe to feel, show vulnerability, and be seen by a woman without having to perform.
A new experience of being seen
“You stop treating your body as something to control
and begin relating to it as something you can trust.”
The journey
The Liberated Lover is a private six-month coaching journey shaped around your intimacy, sexuality, and emotional life.
One 90-minute coaching session each month
One 30-minute check-in each month
Guided audio practices between sessions
Online or in person in Zandvoort
Available in English and Dutch
€249 including VAT per month for six months
Trauma-aware, consent-based, and paced with your body.
What other men have experienced:
“Through our sessions, I made a profound shift: I now feel what I want. Instead of giving from fear or insecurity, I give from genuine connection. Denise keeps bringing me back to my body, every time. I’m still kind, but no longer from fear.”
— Bob
You Do Not Have to Have It All Figured Out
You may only know that you are tired of repeating the same patterns.
In a free discovery call, we explore what is happening, what you long for, and whether The Liberated Lover feels like the right place to begin.
Not ready for the full journey?
Start with a Desire Deep Dive.
The Desire Deep Dive is a 90-minute private session to explore what is happening in your body, intimacy, and desire, and what may be asking for your attention.
You will experience my way of working and leave with more clarity about what you want and what your next step could be.
Pictures by: Inspired by Being, & Annekaere.