Coaching for Couples

Reconnect Through Presence, Safety, and Desire.

Coming Home to Each Other

Many couples come to me wanting to improve their sex life — they love each other, but something feels off.
One wants more, the other less. Desires don’t match, or they don’t know how to talk about them without tension or withdrawal.

This is where the real work begins — not in trying to fix the other, but in coming back to the body.
Because intimacy doesn’t start in words, it starts in presence: in feeling yourself, feeling your partner, and creating the safety where both can meet again.

Together we slow down, soften defenses, and find new ways of meeting each other — beyond performance, pressure, or expectation.
In that space, desire can breathe again.

When words no longer bring you closer…
Return to the body.

Choose Your Journey

The Date Night

An evening of reconnection in the comfort of your own home.
A guided, playful, and heart-opening journey to rediscover intimacy, presence, and desire together.

The Deeper Journey

Begin with your guided date night and continue with a mix of in-person and online sessions.
We explore communication, polarity, and embodied tools that help you integrate new awareness and deepen your connection over time.

The Full Experience

A complete, immersive journey combining in-person couple sessions and individual 1:1 work.
For couples ready to explore the full depth of intimacy, presence, and erotic aliveness in a safe, embodied space.

Every couple is unique.
I’m open to tailoring a journey that meets your specific needs and financial situation, so you can receive the depth of support that truly serves your relationship.

As your guide, I hold a safe and attuned space for you to listen to your bodies, explore your edges, and open to each other in new ways.

Free Intimacy Activator

Try this free guided breathing and presence exercise designed to help you and your partner reconnect — beyond words. Guided by me, it’s a simple yet powerful way to slow down together, feel each other more deeply, and nurture intimacy through the body. Sign up to receive the Intimacy Activator and begin your journey back to connection, one breath at a time.
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Free Couple Exercise

Ready to Bring the Spark Back?

If you’re feeling the distance and longing for closeness again, let’s explore what’s possible together.
In a free Discovery Call, we’ll connect, talk about what’s happening in your relationship, and feel into what kind of support would serve you best.

This is a space to be honest, to breathe, and to begin.

Not ready to Book yet?

If something stirred in you but you're not quite ready to book a call
you can reach out here, or send me an email: info@denisekooij.com

Whether it’s a question, a hesitation, or just wanting to feel into it together,
your voice is welcome here.